this afternoon when i was reading my biatch.. i discovered something, something tat makes me a little bit upset.
i know i shouldn't get upset over it but just tat.. why am i always being missed out by my friends? M i tat bad? i admitted tat i aint putting much efforts in maintaining those so called friendship.. but i DO treat her and always keep her a space in my heart. i know tat aint enough but ya, thats what i can do the most and also the least i could do :S
but after chatting with my most best friend on earth, i felt so much better and not feeling upset anymore. he was right, friends are not for life! at least i haven met someone like this yet. i once read an article titled "season, reason and lifetime" and i did once wrote about it at my blog. this article stated tat the friends tat we met along our path are divided into 3 main categories, which are season, reason and lifetime.
friends tat belongs to season, come and stay for a period then they leave. friends tat come for a reason, they lefted when their "missions" accomplished and last but not least, lifetime friends can be either a friend/friends or our partner(husband or wife)..
♥Friends tat come into ur life for a REASON it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.
♥When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season
♥LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person or people involved; and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships, and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
my readers, which one would u be? :P
凡是看开点，日子好过点..
i would have to always bear this on mind. the less i expect, the greater result i will get. even if i dont have much friends but at least i still have God, my family and him. even if one day he might leave me, i still have God and my family. i believe they will always by my side.
chatted with mummy just now, i realised tat she is getting older each and every day. i love her a lot and its beyond words. mummy had sacrifised alot for us and for our family. i wanna love her more and make her angry less but its kinda hard in times. i will try to be good and love her with all i could. i might not be as lucky as those rich kids out there as their lives are just too good to be true. but i know tat i'm super lucky enough in terms of having such a great mum. :) she makes me realised tat no matter what happened, she would always be there and protect us. ♥
RMP test is on tis friday & i read nothing yet.
time to study.
GOOD LUCK TO ME!:)
