Trust

The other day, one of my colleagues was talking about even prepaid phone can have itemized statement because his friend's girlfriend was checking against his friend's statement. N if you do not know about this, I had googled and YES, prepaid phone can enjoyed itemized billing now! *beware!*LOL!

Being a girl, I understood why that girl is doing so but when we are talking about relationship, there is one thing that both the couple should have - trust.

Once upon a time, I used to doubt baby man on certain kinda things la, something related to girls as well which I could not recall now. He used to tell me this.. "There is no point we tell each other how much we love each other when we don't trust one another". Yes, he does have his point. That's the reason why, I never check on him like purposely on his MSN/Facebook/email/SMS to check. This is because IF he wanted to hide things away from him, he will. So why bother to check?

Furthermore, TRUST is really the key to everything. Baby and I are using postpaid and we actually turned the itemized statement feature off because Maxis charge us for that. Btw, baby was the one suggested to turn it off, If I don't trust him, I might think that he is trying to hide things away from him/must be something fishy going behind my back & etc. In fact, because I trust him, I never had this cross my mind until I am now blogging about this.

Actually I felt pity for the girls who need to check on their boyfriends. I knew this is an action resulted from Insecure and Lack of Trust. I knew how tiring it is to keep thinking what the hell is the boyfriend doing when you are not by his side.

So how to break free from all these?

1. Trust him and let him feel your trust. If the man loves you, he will feel guilty after all and he will not do anything overboard.

2. Dump him. Since you felt so insecure with him, why still wanna be with him? If you really love him, you should give him the trust that he deserved, otherwise at the end of the day, you are making yourself like a suspicious freak!

There is another story that I wanted to share.

I recently met a new friend from gym. She has this very bubbly kind of personality. One day when we were having lunch together, she told me about her love story.

She said she just broke up from her boyfriend from Singapore because he cheated on her. But the main reason why she broke up with him was not because he cheat, it was because the 3rd party seems like wanna commit suicide when she knew that my friend found out about this scandal and she afraid that the guy will leave her. LOL! So my friend was being generous enough to break up with the guy and in a way like gave the guy to the girl la since she wanted him so badly.

That time, I was amazed because this friend of mine is the 1st lady I met who can tolerate affairs. I asked her how could she take it? She said.. "Well, I had been thru a lot! Maybe that's the reason why I am numb now. For me, if they wanted to cheat, it's ok! I'm fine with it as long as I did not caught them on bed"

Ok! Salute! Honestly I don't think I can. But I understand she might have been thru a lot! Even though her past experiences told her that "YOU SHOULD NOT TRUST MEN" but still she trusted them. "No point if I doubt him and be with him. Must well I leave! Haha.. I can still get someone else what. Why wanna make myself like a freak, checking this and that?! I still have my pride and dignity. Checking is not my style!".. This is what she told me and surprisingly now I could link this to my blog entry.

My 1st response after what she told me was "Those men who got you, they are really lucky" because this lady here is giving out 100% trust. But the men who cheated on her, they are asshole!

Conclusion:-

1. Trust your man/woman if you love him/her

2. Love the woman/man who trusted you and DON'T CHEAT!

LOL!

Love,

Missbunnie